The foundation question of all human relationships is:
“Do you (think you) love me?”
The applicable instruction is always:
“Work on yourself.”
It applies whether the reply to the question is affirmative or negative.
It applies to both questioner and responder.
Keys to perceptive understanding of the process of love are the symbols: God; Love; and God is Love;
This is true whether approached in a sacred or a secular mode.
Some people/minds/spirits hold a concept of “Holy Relationship”
This is discussed in a three volume Book/Publication that can be found online at: www.acim.org/